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Tips on getting over a break up with a friend 

Loosing friends sucks.It really does, loosing someone you thought you would share your life with and then it all turns in to shit. For a while your thinking can i ever replace that friend? what have i done to deserve this? Will my life ever be the same again? Yes it will. Sometimes you can grow out of friendships, like you grow out of clothes.People change all the time, maybe yous dont have anything in comin anymore or yous dont like the same music or the same taste in boys or maybe yous just drift apart and thats okay. If yous are ment to be friends forever and that person is ment to be in your life they will find a way back to you.  If your sitting stressing about your ex friend what will other people say? Will i loose my other friends? What if i dont make anymore? Then dont because chances are they arent thinking about you. 

Here are my top 5 tips for getting over that bitch

  1. Cut contact, dont try and message and contact that person if they wont give you the time of day. That also means blocking them on facebook and not just thinking oh il keep them as my friend so i can spy and see if they  are writing bitchy statuses about me chances are they arent.
  2. Make new friends! Put your self out there! Thats easier said than done trust me, but staying positve gets you a long way!
  3. Get a hobby! Concertrate on something you love doing if its running or dancing or even reading a book.
  4. Make effort with your other friends, even if its just watching netflix together your still bonding!
  5. Finally …MOVE ON. Loosing a friend may seem like the end of the world it isnt, the grass is always greener on the other side  and all that.
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